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Saturday, October 27, 2012

Story about Sharing



Its happens everywhere!!Or We have heard/seen it many times. Kids fighting for the same toy or a thing. The toy will gain lots of importance when two or more kids meet up in the same place or even sometimes happen with siblings too, but otherwise the toys will be at rest. Its just a phase, which will eventually pass as they grow. But instead of leaving it to time, we can take some steps to make them understand about sharing in " their language". Languages differ for each kid. I dont mean the different languages like english, telugu, hindi etc, .
but the way of making them understand. Some mature kids will share on their own, some will share when ask them to, some wont understand or wont share even if they understand and so on.
Instead of leaving them in their own way or just forcing them to share, we can be with them, talk to them ,play with them and try to get the kids to share. It sometimes is harder than it appears. But its not impossible.
Sharing is a very important thing that we have to make the kids learn. It can be tough times for parents or even be embarassing when the kids dont listen them.
But its OUR kids, we are responsible for them, its our responsibility. Our love, our care, our affection and changing the ways to make them learn can certainly change the kids behaviour sooner or later.
We can take up some of the behavioural things and manners, each a week may be, and do some activities or some story times related to the same. Im just trying to implement it with my girl. One such story I found , that I wanted to share here.

 One day, two friends along with their parents, while walking along the road saw a nice rope lying by its side. Both wanted to have it and started to fight for it. They didnt listen to their parents advices and suggestions.
One held it from one end and the other from the other end. They started pulling the rope. Suddenly, the rope broke off from the middle.
One of them fell in mud and the other in a drain. Thier dresses were spoiled. They got hurt too.
A passenger by who was watching all this, went to them and said, " fighting for a thing always gives bad results." The friends felt ashamed of their deed. They appologised to their parents saying sorry and said they wont repeat the same.
Then they started to share with each other and played in turns and got rewards from their parents.
source( itsaperfectstory).
Its beautiful platform to share the experiences and learn great wonderful things which are so helpful for the parents in upbringing the kids. Thank u Diwakar ji. With your inspiration, motivation I could find things learn , try and share here.

2 comments:

  1. find , learn , try and share here.... good tag line for our blog....hehe..
    am overwhelmed with your appropriate story, more to that the description before the story tells all about you and you intention.
    am student of life ,learning life with tiny experience which we have on daily basis, the more we live aware-fully the more we enjoy.
    Thank you archana for sharing wonderful message - fighting always gives bad results.

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  2. Every small better effort is a manifestation of ur nurturing.the same positive energy that u filled in me..
    Adopting life and being a student of life..is a very great thing..I can know what it means...
    Thank u for motivating me to 'put in words'..

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