Thank You Mom

While I was just surfing I found this video, which I wanted to share here.
Motherhood is a greatest blessing that every woman can have and also the highest role that needs plenty of patience, responsibility, tolerance and loads of love to shower.
Right from feeding the baby, putting her to sleep, calming her down, having sleepless nights, doing age appropriate activities with the child, wishing the best in the world for the baby,
protecting her, praying for her and every single thing that she can do to make child to be better and live better.
Out of many parenting techniques, the technique which has love as the base always is strong and lasts forever, however the parent bears the pain and puts in tremendous untiring efforts.
Without minding and complaining about her lack of sleep, her timely meals, her own relaxing time, she always attends to the kids.
A " mom" will know about her kid's behaviour and the techniques of handling her( which differs from kid to kid).Many parents, we think we should provide our kids with all the things that we have missed in our childhood.
but mostly it is confined to the lines of materials. We cannot forget the times when we thought or when we said to our kids , " I was not given these many dresses or toys or cycle or bike", " I never had a mobile until I started to work" and so on..
But the same interest of providing the kid better means, in terms of elements of better living like providing opportunity, making them fearless, encouraging them, boosting their morals, listening to them, assuring you support to them,
and so on, will definitely be a very strong base for their transformation in to a better person.Out of affection, love, we parents sometimes spoonfeed the kids.Cooking variety dishes for them and feeding them only makes them lazy and incompetant, instead if we can teach them the art of cooking which if learnt , will help them to survive anywhere and everywhere.
I say this out of my personal experience. I am now in the process of being an independent individual, am in the process of breaking my barriers which " pampering" has caused. Pampering is good and necessary , which definitely has to be reduced after sometime.
Its like holding the fingers of baby to teach her to walk, pretending to hold the fingers of the baby just to make her comfortable when she tries to walk, then eventually she will walk and then she will run , infact she will explore jumping and acts like that.
Its us, the parents have to know the right time when to hold and when to leave her fingers to be on her own. A few falls will make the baby strong and good thing about the baby is they dont just sit at the same place where they fell. Some may need a boosting, some they themselves start again, some they try after sometime and some they dont leave until they reach.
All these things Moms always watch , observe , act and handle.
To the MOM, who is a friend, guide, a philosopher,who has inspired me to write these few words, from whom I am learning/have learnt the act of tolerance, kindness, untiring efforts, providing AMPLE LOADS of support and love alwayss,whose success is even if the kid has done the mistake it runs to the mom and confesses to her, trusting she will always love and correct the mistake,
who is always been a wonderful role model and does justice to the role of being a mom, a true mom that the kid herself/himself has acknowledged/(s), I dedicate this video.
and I wish I be a good mom to my child.
At this moment we shall thank our moms and we shall be loving moms to our kids making them  wonderful individuals.

And kids if you read this artcile , take a moment from your busy schedule of classes and homeworks , and think of your mom and express your love , affection and gratitude towards her, Theres nothing more than the kid's expression for a mom in the world that will make her happy.